People ask me if they will see their Grandma or Great Grandma after death if they did not become Born Again Christians? First I am so sorry you have been made to fear the love of God fully demonstrated in Christ Jesus. That being said the answer is yes yes yes you will see your family in the afterlife, love is the bottom line here. Let me comfort you that Jesus never taught this idea that Born Again means saying the sinners prayer. What is is important is not can you get your family saved, but did you love them as the image of God they are?